I am for sure not a mom who isn’t frazzled or one who has it all together. I have an almost 4 year old, a 16 month old and am 38 weeks preggers with my third. I don’t get my to do list checked off every day, the laundry is never all done, but I’ve learned to accept that I am not perfect and that if I try my best I feel accomplished. Parenting is one day at a time and most enjoyable when it’s not 100% predictable. Life is messy and chaotic and beautiful and we just have to survive it.